Software Engineer Rishta
IT is the fastest-growing profession on this site and among the most portable. Remote work for foreign clients is common, which means a Pakistani address with a dollar income — and…
Software Engineer profiles, and what to ask
IT is the fastest-growing profession on this site and among the most portable. Remote work for foreign clients is common, which means a Pakistani address with a dollar income — and also a job that can disappear with a single client decision.
Profession is one of the first things families filter on here, and for good reason: it decides income, hours, whether the couple will move, and how much of the week they will actually see each other. Our profession list runs to more than three hundred entries across twenty groups, so “Software Developer” means what it says rather than being lumped into a vague category.
What to verify
- Employer confirmed through the company switchboard, not a personal number
- For freelance income, bank statements over several months
- Degree attestation, though many strong developers are self-taught
We confirm an email address and nothing else. Every check above belongs to you, and a family with nothing to hide will not resent being asked — they are checking you too.
The questions that actually matter
Employed, freelance, or remote for a foreign company?
Which company, and how long there?
Is migration intended?
Questions worth asking at the first meeting
Families often spend the first meeting on pleasantries and the third on the things that decide everything. Reversing that order saves months.
Where will we live, in year one?
Not in principle. Specifically, in the first twelve months, and with whom.
Will she continue working?
Asked of the mother-in-law, in front of the groom, and the answer accepted as given.
What happens if the plan changes?
A failed exam, a refused visa, a business downturn. A family with no answer has not thought it through.
Who pays for what?
The wedding, the visa, the housing. Vagueness here becomes an argument later, reliably.
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